Hey Ms. Fabulous,
I want you to imagine for a moment with me. I want you to imagine a life where you feel confident, hopeful even. You’re encouraged all of the time and when a problem arises in your life, you immediately know how to handle it in a positive way. You’re starting to unlock those gifts inside of you that have been buried. You just feel like you’re on an entirely new journey. That you’re writing a whole new chapter for your life and for the first time the pen’s in your hand. How’s that feel?
I know it probably seems like a distant future from where you are right now, but it’s not an impossibility. Because I’ve been in a place where my life looked nothing like what we just described. Everything was so gray. I felt like I was at a crossroads and going through so many transitions but the whole time feeling this overwhelming sense of brokenness, spiritually and emotionally. I only saw the problems. There were no solutions in my mind. See? Not the same place we starting out describing.
But I was able to get there. I was able to have my life change like that. It didn’t happen overnight. But amazing transformations don’t normally. They need love and care. They need space to grow. So I had to give myself that and it allowed me to get to a place where I could see my transitions as beautiful transformations.
I had to learn to love me, and everything that came in between. I had to learn how to let go of everything I thought I ‘needed’ to actually allow space for me to ask myself what I ‘wanted’ for the first time. I had to write things down like, ‘What is my truth?’ Without someone else barging in to answer it for me. I had to sit down and ask myself ‘What was I created to do?’ Because, even I, could have a purpose.
So I want you to know, Ms. Fabulous, that today is where your journey starts. You already began the second you opened up this virtual page and sat down to read it.
The pen is in your hand now and all I ask you to do, in this moment, is write down the words ‘I am worthy.’ Even if you don’t believe it right now, one day soon enough, you will. And once you do, everyone else will. And your life will change.
Your Fabulous Sister,
Andrea Lambert is a New Jersey based life coach, helping women in transition become their fully realized selves. Andrea works with clients in New York and New Jersey and is passionate about life coaching for women on the brink of greatness. Contact Andrea Lambert for more information about how coaching can change your life.